17 Rules for a Happy Marriage

“I pray in Yahshua’s name that I and my loved ones are blessed and washed in the precious blood of Yahshua and that spheres of angels surround and protect all of us always. I pray that my home is a place where the angels want to be and that they feel welcome and comfortable here. Yahweh’s will be done. Amen and Amen.”


The saints are identified in the Bible as having four characteristics:
(1) keeping the commandments, (2) trusting the blood of the Lamb, (3) sharing their faith with others, and (4) choosing to die rather than to sin. A person who is truly in-love and married to Christ has made a life commitment to Him and walks His walk and talks His talk.

Christians aren’t perfect, they are, however, forgiven. Christians live in this world and are aware of what is going on in it. If you believe in God then you have to acknowledge that Lucifer exists. Oh yes, Satan lives here all right, as a matter of fact, this is his system of things. If it wasn’t he wouldn’t have been able to have offered it to Jesus/Yahweh! Matthew 4:8-11
8 Again, the devil took Him up on an exceedingly high mountain, and showed Him all the kingdoms of the world and their glory.
9 And he said to Him, “All these things I will give You if You will fall down and worship me.”
10 Then Jesus said to him, “Away with you, Satan! For it is written, ‘You shall worship the LORD your God, and Him only you shall serve.’”
11 Then the devil left Him, and behold, angels came and ministered to Him.
The devil, that would be Lucifer, took Him, that would be Jesus or Yahshua, up on an exceedingly high mountain, and showed Him all the kingdoms of the world and their glory. And he said to Him, “All these things I will give You if You will fall down and worship me.” Well the only way Lucifer can give Yahshua all the kingdoms of the world and their glory is if they are his to give! Lucifer doesn’t want to suffer alone!
Lucifer loves to trip God’s people up; he wants Christians to stumble and look bad or actually look worldly. Christians may try not to be of the world or “in the world” OR “Be in the world” however sometimes it just can’t be helped. We are human! That is why Father Yahweh gave us Yahshua; because we do fall and stumble; sometimes through our own doings and some times because we are under attack. I know I am “IN” the world right now and am not a very good witness myself; HOWEVER I do trust in the blood of The Lamb and know I am not slated for Hell either. I believe in the blood of the Lamb or why Yahshua was sacrificed. I hate that I am part of the pain He felt as part of The Crucifixion. A portion of His suffering, His blood, is what cover’s me and all who believe in Him. He didn’t die for nothing. The Father knows my heart. He knows everyone’s heart, your’s included!
“It is not Yahweh's will for us to be unequally yoked together with unbelievers, especially in marriage. Aside from choosing to believe in Yahweh, it is probably the most important decision a believer will ever make.” Eliyah

(I didn’t do that! I did what I wanted to do and didn’t even think of Yahweh. I know better now! So my marrying an unbeliever was actually an abomination to Father Yahweh. I can only believe divorcing that hard hearted man is allowed, based on the fact that He only sanctions marriage between His people. I asked an Elder, Eliyah, about this and he prayed and then came up with the following so if you believe in God and His Son and are like I was, terrified of offending The Father, then this link will help you! http://www.eliyah.com/family/divorceremarriage.html) The man I married flat out denies Jesus/Yahshua…he does not have any love for God at all. This is why I know that I am allowed to divorce him. Being married to a down right cold loveless, inattentive, self-righteous, unkind, selfish, nagging person can encourage evil thoughts and actions in the opposite spouse. Which means that if a spouse goes looking for love else-where or no longer wants to be with the loveless, inattentive, self-righteous, unkind, selfish, nagging and or down right cold person BOTH parties share the guilt and are responsible for the disintegration of the marriage.

Ponder this: God is love…and if you do not marry a believer of God…how can you expect to be loved the way you deserve, want and need to be love? A non believer married to a believer gets love, however what does the believer get? I can tell you from experience, it wasn’t the love wanted, needed, craved or given!

Before you marry you need to know the rules! First of all it is until Death do you part. If you have it in the back of your mind, “Well, if this doesn’t work out I can always divorce him.” STOP right there. Ask yourself a few questions. First of all, do you love him? Are you in love with him, however don’t like him? Are you in love with him truly, or just like the idea of being in love? Do you like him? Do you like who your are when you are with him? Does he make you like you? Does he make you laugh? Does he make you feel good about yourself and life? Does he like your family and does that matter? Do you have children? Do they like him? Yeah yeah, they will be out of the house in a few years BUT THEY WILL STILL BE PART OF YOUR LIFE!!!! For the rest of it actually! Do you have the same goals, beliefs, values, dreams and most importantly faith? If you don’t like the answers you get to these questions you need to re-evaluate exactly why you want to marry this man. Gents… same goes for you!



There are 17 rules for a happy marriage:

1. Establish your own private home. Genesis 2:24 “Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh.”

2. Continue your courtship. 1 Peter 4:8 “Above all hold unfailing your love for one another, since love covers a multitude of sins.” Proverbs 31:28 “Her husband praises her.” 1 Corinthians 7:34 “She that is married careth…how she may please her husband.” Romans 12:10 “Be kindly affectioned one to another… in honor preferring one another.”


3. Remember that God joined you together in marriage. Matthew 19: 5-6: for this cause shall a man leave father and mother, and shall cleave to his wife. … Wherefore they are no more twain, but one flesh. What therefore God hath joined together let not man put asunder.”

4. Guard your thoughts---don’t let your senses trap you. Proverbs 23:7 “For as he thinketh in his heart, so is he.” Exodus 20:17 “Thou shalt not covet thy neighbor’s wife.” Proverbs 4:23 “Keep thy heart with all diligence; for out of it are the issues of life.” Philippians 4:8 “Whatsoever things are true …honest…just…pure…lovely…of good report…think on these things.”


5. Never retire for the night angry with each other. Ephesians 4:26 “Let not the sun go down on your wrath.” James 5:16 “Confess your faults one to another.” Philippians 3:13 “Forgetting those things which are behind.” Ephesians 4:32 “Be ye kind one to another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God for Christ’s sake hath forgiven you.”

6. Keep Christ in the center of your home. Psalm 127:1 “Except the Lord build the house, they labour in vain that build it.” Proverb 3:6 “In all thy ways acknowledge Him, and He shall direct thy paths.” Philippians 4:7 “And the peace of God, which passeth all understanding, shall keep your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus (Yahshua).”


7. Pray together. Matthew 26:41 “Pray that ye enter not into temptation: the spirit indeed is willing, but the flesh is weak.” James 5:16 “Pray one for another.” James1”5 “If any of you lack wisdom, let him ask of God, that giveth to all men liberally.”

8. Agree that divorce is not the answer. Matthew 19:6 “What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder.” Matthew 19:9 “Whosoever shall put away his wife, except it be for fornication, and shall marry another, committeth adultry: and whoso marrrieth her which is put away doth commit adultry.” Romans 7:2 “The woman which hath an husband is bound by the law to her husband so long as he liveth.”


9. Keep the family circle closed tightly. Exodus 20:14 “Thou shalt not commit adultery.” Proverbs 31:11-12 “The heart of her husband doth safely trust in her. … She will do him good and not evil all the days of her life.” Malachi 2:14 “The Lord hath been witness between thee and the wife of thy youth, against whom thou hast dealt treacherously.” Proverbs 6:24-29 “Keep thee from the evil woman. … Lust not after her beauty in thine heart; neither let her take thee with her eyelids. … Can a man take fire in his bosom, and his clothes no be burned? … So he that goeth in to his neighbors’ wife, whosoever toucheth her shall not be innocent.”

10. God describes love; make it your daily goal to measure up. 1 Corinthians 13:4-7 “Love is forbearing and kind. Love knows no jealousy. Love does not brag; is not conceited. She is not unmannerly, nor selfish, nor irritable, nor mindful of wrongs. She does not rejoice in injustice, but joyfully sides with the truth. She can overlook faults. She is full of trust, full of hope, full of endurance.”


11. Remember that criticism and nagging destroy love. Colossians 3:19 “Husbands, love your wives, and be not bitter against them.” Proverbs 21:19 “It is better to dwell in the wilderness, than with a contentious and an angry woman.” Proverb 27:15 “A continual dropping in a very rainy day and a contentious woman are alike.” Matthew 7:3 “Why beholdest thou mote that is in thy brother’s eye, but considerest not the beam that is in thine eye?” (A mote is a splinter and a beam would be an entire board or 2x4!!!) 1 Corinthians 13:4 “Love … looks for a way of being constuctive.”

12. Do not overdo in anything; be temperate. 1 Corinthians 9:25 “Every man that striveth for the the mastery is temperate in all things. 1 Corinthians 13:5 “Love … does not pursue selfish advantage.” 1 Corinthians 10:31 “Whether therefore ye eat, or drink, or whatsoever ye do, do all to the glory of God.” 1 Corinthians 9:27 “I keep under my body, and bring it into subjection.” 2 Thessalonians 3:10“If any would not work, neither should he eat.” Hebrews 13:4 “Marriage is honourable in all, and the bed undefiled.” Romans 6:12-13 “Let not sin therefore reign in your mortal body, that ye should obey it in the lusts thereof. Neither yield ye your members as instruments of unrighteousness unto sin.”


13. Respect each other’s personal rights and privacies. 1 Corinthians 13:4-7 “Love is forbearing and kind. Love knows no jealousy. Love does not brag; is not conceited. She is not unmannerly, nor selfish, nor irritable, nor mindful of wrongs. She does not rejoice in injustice, but joyfully sides with the truth. She can overlook faults. She is full of trust, full of hope, full of endurance.” Romans 12:10 “Be kindly affectioned one to another… in honor preferring one another.”

14. Be clean, modest, orderly, and dutiful. 1 Timothy 2:9 “In like manner also, that women adorn themselves in modest apparel.” Proverbs 31:1,15,27 “She … works with willing hands.” “she rises while it is yet night and provides food for her household.” “She lookswell to the ways of her household, and does not eat the bread of idleness.” Isaiah 52:11 “Be ye clean.” 1 Corinthians 14:40 “Let all things be done decently and in order. 1 Timothy 5:8 “If any provide not … for those of his own house, he hath denied the faith, and is worse than an infidel.” Hebrew 6:12 “Be not slothful.”


15. Determine to speak softly and kindly. Proverb 15:1 “A soft answer turneth away wrath: but grievous words stir up anger.” Eccleciates 9:9 “Live joyfully with the wife whom thou lovest.” 1 Corinthians 13:11 “When I became a man, I put away childish things.”

16. Be reasonable in money matters. 1 Corinthians 13:4-5 “Love is not possessive. … Love has good manners and does not pursue selfish advantage.” 2 Corinthians 9:2 “God loveth a cheerful giver.”


17. Talk things over and counsel together freely. 1 Corinthians 13:4,5 “Love is neither anxious to impress nor does it cherish inflated ideas of its own importence. … It is not touchy.” Proverbs 15:32 “He that refuseth instuction despiseth his own soul.” Proverbs 23:12”Seet thou a man wise in his own conceit? there is more hope of a fool than of him.